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  • October 13

    October 13, 2013 was going to be my wedding day. But you all know how that went. In my search for closure, acceptance, and strength, October 13, 2013 became an animal of its…

  • Why I Stopped Looking for My Tribe

    I have always had a hard time belonging. Always. There are days I don’t feel like I even belong in my own skin, but that’s a different kind of battle I fight every…

  • Brain on Fire, Gone Girl, Dark Places

    I’ve had fierce writer’s block the past few months, but instead of writing about that, I’m going to write about the books I’ve been reading. First of all, if you’ve read Gone Girl, hated…

  • On Turning 29

    A year ago, on my birthday, I was alone. My birthday was on a Monday and I was hoping that some of my friends would still want to come out and say hi,…

  • How I Want to Remember My 2013

    I wasn’t going to write a wrap-up blog. I mean, I certainly won’t write a blog about resolutions, but guys, 2013 was a big year for me. But I don’t want to remember…

  • This Is Not A List of Resolutions

    (I originally wrote this in December, 2011. These remain true for me today) Around this time of year, the blogosphere is filled with reflections, resolutions, and everything in between. Over the last couple…