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Then & Now

THEN AND NOW: This tag basically asks what I was like as a kid, at age 18, and now, for all of the following:

*MY DREAM JOB*

Kid: A reporter…I LOVED to talk and I loved watching the news. I was on the TV crew in middle school and I would sit at my desk, reading news out loud.
Age 18: Lawyer. From the moment I watched A Time to Kill, everything in my life was about law school. I did Mock Trial and Debate in high school and chose GW because there was no way I could do anything else in my life. My path was set. Get my B.A. then on to law school I would go…
Now: Well, I’d still love to be a lawyer but priorities have changed…but in a way, they’ve gone back to the basics of what I’ve always wanted to do with my life. I want to write full time and make a difference. The law school dream is put aside for now.

*MY FANTASY CRUSH*
Kid: Ricky Martin. Tarkan (Turkish singer)
Age 18: Rob Thomas, without a doubt. George Clooney.
Now: George Clooney. House.

*FAVORITE SONG*

Kid: It was a LOT of Turkish songs…
Age 18: “Unwell” by Matchbox 20 & “Hotel California” by the Eagles
Now: I CAN’T PICK JUST ONE!! At the moment, I’m in love with Three Days Grace’s “Pain” & “Home” as well as “Best of You” by Foo Fighters with a bit of Beth Hart mixed in there with “LA Song” and “Soulshine”…and then there’s “Zephyr Song” by the Red Hot Chili Peppers. Of course, I can’t forget the all time favorites of MB20, Linkin Park and a bunch of Turkish songs.

*FAVORITE MOVIE*

Kid: GREASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Age 18: Grease. A Time to Kill. Boondock Saints
Now: Grease. A Time to Kill. Boondock Saints. Love Actually. American History X and a bunch of others.

*HOW YOU SPENT YOUR EVENINGS*

Kid: Read and did HW, watched TV…after my brother was born, it was pretty much spent with him.
Age 18: Classes, working till late and then coming home to pull an all-nighter to finish my classwork. No wonder I burned myself out my first year of college…
Now: Working out, watching TV, writing, spending time with my bro and dad.

*YOUR BEST FRIENDS*
Kid: Z in Turkey; B. in middle school
Age 18: Jackie & Nzimale
Now: Meghan above all. Anthony, J, Karina and a few others that know who they are.

*MY JOB*

Kid: Staying alive…
Age 18: I had two jobs. Customer service at Giant and office assistant on campus…on top of keeping my scholarship…
Now: Admin Assistant, freelancer, writer.

*MY CRUSHES*

Kid: I didn’t have crushes back then. I was too much of a tomboy…
Age 18: Mark A. from Giant….he was basically the only crush I had until I met TJ a year later…
Now: I don’t do crushes really…but there’s still one man who takes my breath away.

*WHAT SCARED YOU?*

Kid: My mom
Age 18: Losing my scholarship. Not being a good sister to my brother…
Now: ANYTHING happening to my brother.

*YOUR HERO?*

Kid: I was such a Daddy’s princess…and my grandfather…
Age 18: Dad, my grandfather and Marilyn Monroe.
Now: Dad. My grandfather. Marilyn Monroe. My brother. Anyone who spends their life trying to make a difference in the world by being true to who they are.

*MADE YOU LAUGH?*

Kid: Hardly anything until my brother was born…
Age 18: My friends, standup comedy, being incredibly stupid in public.
Now: Yeah well, basically all the same. Oh and stupid people…

*HOW YOU FELT ABOUT YOUR FAMILY*

Kid: I felt like I didn’t belong
Age 18: Stifling but I still loved them.
Now: Love ’em to death but they hold me back.

*A DREAM COME TRUE?*

Age 18: I’d already had my dreams come true by getting into GW. What I wanted then was to have my parents keep their promise to me at the end of my first year. Naturally, they didn’t.
Now: Being successful and going after my goals, no matter how hard I have to work at them.

*WHO WERE YOU?*

Kid: Tomboy…the girl that all the boys were scared of and all the other girls hated. A disappointment to my parents no matter how hard I tried. An older sister.
Age 18: INCREDIBLY self-conscious. I had no idea who I was or who I was supposed to be…I didn’t know that I was doing the right thing all along…I lost focus on who I was because I let my parents take over my heart
Now: A writer, a lover, a fighter, a friend, confidante, a sister, a daughter. I know where I came from and I know where I’m going. I’ve come a VERY long way in the last 5 years and I will continue to grow, no matter what. I still struggle with self-esteem issues and sometimes past demons crawl back to the surface but at the end of the day, I am stronger than I ever gave myself credit for and I’m ready to take on the world because I got soul.

I…tag…YOU!! Do this…it was a lot of fun 🙂

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  • topsurf December 17, 2008, 8:25 am

    that’s a great tag!

  • Christine December 17, 2008, 9:45 am

    I love this! What a fun post 🙂 I think I might just have to do it, too!

  • citizen janey December 17, 2008, 11:32 am

    What fun! And yep, I’m SO stealing it.

    citizen janey’s last blog post..It’s friendship, friendship…

  • Cassie December 17, 2008, 11:35 am

    MY DREAM JOB*

    Kid: Wonder Woman…what that bitch KICKED ASS and she had an invisible JET……hells yeah

    Age 18: Truck Driver…as in big rig driver….I LOVE to drive and travel, so it was gonna be PERFECT

    Now: I AM a petroleum engineer, but I want to be a bar owner

    *MY FANTASY CRUSH*
    Kid: Ralph Machio, and Duran Duran
    Age 18: no clue
    Now: MM is the only only but I would turn down Shemar Moore, either

    *FAVORITE SONG*

    Kid: ‘The tide is High’ by Blondie and ‘Nobody’ by Slyvia and “Dust in the Wind’ by Kansas, these are the ones that I remember

    Age 18: hmmmm, don’t even remember 18, but I’m gonna have to go with ‘Blue Skies’ by Bjork<—only the Techno remix

    Now: always on my list of favs is ‘The Weekend’ by Steve Wariner

    *FAVORITE MOVIE*

    Kid: Mary Poppins
    Age 18: Mary Poppins
    Now: Mary Poppins

    *HOW YOU SPENT YOUR EVENINGS*

    Kid: Homework and basketball/softball practice

    Age 18: homework and maybe some TV

    Now: working at the property, TV, hanging out with friends

    *YOUR BEST FRIENDS*
    Kid: never really had any

    Age 18: Casey, Katie, Gretchen and Kim

    Now: Jeff and Kay and Casey and Katie and Jo Jo and many others

    *MY JOB*

    Kid: stacking firewood and dishwasher duty

    Age 18: Dominos

    Now: petroleum engineer

    *MY CRUSHES*

    Kid: ewwwwwwwww, boys had cooties

    Age 18: Thsi guy from the Catholic group at college

    Now: no one at all

    *WHAT SCARED YOU?*

    Kid: My dad

    Age 18: NOTHING…ok, maybe getting caught

    *YOUR HERO?*

    Kid: umm, wonderwoman…..pay attn
    Age 18: my grandparents
    Now: ANYONE that strives to do better

    *MADE YOU LAUGH?*

    Kid: my siblings

    Age 18: friends

    Now: freidns

    *HOW YOU FELT ABOUT YOUR FAMILY*

    Kid: LOVE THEM
    Age 18: Loved them
    Now: Love them

    *A DREAM COME TRUE?*

    Age 18: hadn’t gotten on yet

    Now: buying my land

    *WHO WERE YOU?*

    Kid: Tomboy.
    Age 18: just starting ot find myself

    Now: I still have no real clue..I am ME

  • Jen December 18, 2008, 11:53 pm

    This is a fun meme! I may just have to do it. I love the movie Love Actually too. I’m doing a post about it tomorrow.

    Jen’s last blog post..Sex and Minivans 101

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