Bitch. Slut. Hussy.Whore.Dork.Nerd.Spazz.
These are all terms of affection that my friends have used for me. Warms your heart, don’t it? My friends and I have an understanding and that understanding is that the words that we use don’t matter. Words are taboo only because we impose that taboo meaning on them.
Behind every word flows energy. If you use your words to gossip or babble about what you are going to do before you do it, then you are siphoning off the energy needed to actually do the work. Your words become an energy leak. ~ Sonia Choquette
In addition to words, what people fail to realize is that we have to own our own faults so that we don’t give other people ammunition to put us down. Why do you guys it’s so easy for me to let things roll off my back when someone says something stupid and hateful about me?
You want to call me an attention whore? Uh ok…Why don’t you go back and read half of my blogs where I CALL MYSELF an attention whore. Sorry. You have to be more original than THAT.
You think I’m obnoxious? Uh hello? OK. Again. That’s a duh factor.
I know that there are some people out there who think that by referring to myself as a bitch, I’m demeaning myself when I believe it’s quite the opposite. I’m taking away the negative power of the word to use it the way I want to. I do have bitchy moments. I do have moments where I act like a hussy. An attention whore…I could go on. The point is to own yourself…accept your flaws and turn them into a positive.
Take the ammunition and power away from other people.
I talk a lot, so I tell my friends to always have their excedrin with them.
I have big feet. A big ass. I get hyper and loud a lot. I’m insecure and needy. I’m obnoxious.
So? I know I’m all of these things but I’m not JUST these things.
I accept EVERYTHING that I am, and own up to them. That way, whatever other people may say to me don’t matter because I already know. I know what I see when I look in the mirror and that’s all that matters.
Of course, with that said…I might call my best friend a cuntface but no one can even look at her the wrong way or they’ll have their balls in a jar.
Our thoughts and assumptions take over our lives. We are what we think. The FEELING behind our words represent the meaning…not the other way around. — PQ
So take a look in the mirror, figure it out your flaws and your strengths…and OWN THEM. Don’t give ANYONE ELSE power over YOU. Own that ponytail girls
What will YOU own about YOU today?