Picture this: You’ve been married for a couple of years and you’re 4 months pregnant. One day, you find nude pictures of you on your husband’s computer. The only thing is…You were not aware that he was taking these pictures. His reasoning? He wants to remember what you look like before you were pregnant. Number of pictures: 5-7. Creep factor: 2 out of 5. Is this grounds for divorce?
Next caller on the line: Ex-boyfriend uploaded sexual pix to a website. No face just parts. But unauthorized. Ex-boyfriend has a foot fetish so he also pictures of your feet. Not fully naked though…his private parts are keeping your feet warm in the picture. Creep factor: 5 out of 5. Relationship: Terminated
Next caller: Boyfriend takes pictures of pregnant girlfriend starting somewhere around the 4th month. She finds them, confronts him and he says that he wanted to see the changes in her body during the pregnancy. Woman takes control of the situation and lets him take the pictures…while she’s awake. Creep factor: 1 out of 5. Relationship: Going strong (Baby is now 4 months old)
I didn’t listen to the rest of the calls. The original caller was the married woman who is thinking about divorce. I understand that there is a trust issue involved and yeah, it’s a little creepy but it was only a few pictures and he didn’t post them online or shared them. I think the trust issue can be worked through if both parties are willing.
What would you do in any of the above situations? (OK so #2 is sort of cut and dry). Has this ever happened to you? Someone you know?
Guys…have you ever/would you take pictures of your lady without her knowing? Why? If you did and she found out, what would her reaction be? OR If you did, and she found out, what WAS her reaction?